Sometimes when I look back, I wish I hadn’t lived so quietly. I wish I had been given more knowledge, more options, and more understanding.

But then I remind myself that all of those moments, even the ones that felt small or limited, brought me here. They shaped who I am and led me to where I stand today.

So I reframe my mindset. I look back and remember the joy. I hold on to the memories, good and bad. I recognize the lessons I did learn, even if they came slowly.

There is still an entire life ahead of me. One I can choose to live and love loudly. One I can explore with curiosity and seek joy without hesitation. What once felt like regret or frustration for not having the knowledge becomes an invitation to move forward with more intention.

These steps, quiet or loud, are part of the path that shaped me. And they remind me that I still have countless steps ahead, waiting to be lived with joy and intention.